{"id":13480,"date":"2017-12-06T17:58:32","date_gmt":"2017-12-06T21:58:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/?p=13480"},"modified":"2017-12-16T18:32:49","modified_gmt":"2017-12-16T22:32:49","slug":"memento-mori","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/?p=13480","title":{"rendered":"Memento Mori"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I went into my daughter&#8217;s room to get her up this morning. She was sitting on her bed, sorting through her Pokemon cards. Among the Pokemon tins was one smaller, different tin. She told me I could open it, so I did. Inside was a necklace with beads that spelled out the word MOM. Aw!<\/p>\n<p>I said, &#8220;Oh, is this for me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No,&#8221; she replied.<\/p>\n<p>Huh. That was not the answer I had expected. &#8220;But is says `Mom&#8217; on it. Are you sure it&#8217;s not for me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s for me,&#8221; she said. &#8220;To remind me of you when you&#8217;re dead.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She went on to explain that she doesn&#8217;t want me to die. It&#8217;s just that she wants to be able to remember me if I do. That sounds reasonable, and kind of sweet. I&#8217;m not planning to die any time soon, but it is nice to know that, if I do, there&#8217;s someone who wants to remember me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I went into my daughter&#8217;s room to get her up this morning. She was sitting on her bed, sorting through her Pokemon cards. Among the Pokemon tins was one smaller, different tin. She told me I could open it, so &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/?p=13480\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[456],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13480"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13480"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13480\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13510,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13480\/revisions\/13510"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13480"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13480"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13480"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}