{"id":24110,"date":"2025-12-20T10:44:37","date_gmt":"2025-12-20T15:44:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/?p=24110"},"modified":"2025-12-20T10:52:35","modified_gmt":"2025-12-20T15:52:35","slug":"crying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/?p=24110","title":{"rendered":"Crying"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>My father-in-law died last night. It was not unexpected, except in the sense of it happening so soon. We thought we&#8217;d have a few more days. I&#8217;d hoped to bring the children to say good-bye. But when the ringing of the phone woke me this morning before 8:00 a.m., I knew it could not be a good thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From bleary-eyed to teary-eyed, I must look a wreck. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2025\/12\/17\/arts\/music\/ravel-jardin-feerique.html\">This music by Ravel<\/a> (another version given below) is somehow really turning on the faucet. I don&#8217;t know why I keep listening to it, but I have to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Ravel: Ma m\u00e8re l&#039;oye \/ Rattle \u00b7 Berliner Philharmoniker\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/gzJ_-6I5JgY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My father-in-law died last night. It was not unexpected, except in the sense of it happening so soon. We thought we&#8217;d have a few more days. I&#8217;d hoped to bring the children to say good-bye. But when the ringing of &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/?p=24110\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24110"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=24110"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24110\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24112,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24110\/revisions\/24112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=24110"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=24110"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=24110"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}