{"id":24256,"date":"2026-02-26T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-02-26T13:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/?p=24256"},"modified":"2026-02-22T10:26:45","modified_gmt":"2026-02-22T15:26:45","slug":"a-high-bar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/?p=24256","title":{"rendered":"A High Bar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>On the day of my appointment with the orthopedist, my husband had some errands to run. He took my car, promising he&#8217;d bring it back a half hour before my appointment time, which would give me enough time to get there. Ultimately he returned 25 minutes later than promised, and the look I gave him as I walked up to the car will, he said, cause him lasting trauma. And when I reached the car, I screamed at him, lashing out like the wounded animal that I am.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Luckily for him, I was in a hurry and couldn&#8217;t waste a lot of time yelling at him. And luckily for both of us, I made surprisingly good time driving across town and was only about 12 minutes late for my appointment, which was not late enough for them to send me packing. Whew!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I got home, I found that he&#8217;d cleaned the kitchen, fixed the broken screen door, and watered the piano. I had already forgiven him when he called me on my cell phone to apologize, but I really appreciated those extra touches. He&#8217;d made a mistake, but then he made amends. You can&#8217;t ask for more than that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But damn, he set the bar high when he did those extra things! Now we both gotta be careful not to make any mistakes. ;P<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On the day of my appointment with the orthopedist, my husband had some errands to run. He took my car, promising he&#8217;d bring it back a half hour before my appointment time, which would give me enough time to get &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/?p=24256\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24256"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=24256"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24256\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24315,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24256\/revisions\/24315"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=24256"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=24256"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=24256"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}