{"id":5006,"date":"2011-10-23T08:00:06","date_gmt":"2011-10-23T12:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/?p=5006"},"modified":"2011-10-22T23:04:24","modified_gmt":"2011-10-23T03:04:24","slug":"just-the-facts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/?p=5006","title":{"rendered":"Just the Facts?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here is another conversation between Poirot and his friend Hastings.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Mon ami<\/em>&#8212;you know my suspicious nature! I believe nothing that any one says unless it can be confirmed or corroborated.&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;That&#8217;s right, old boy,&#8221; I said affectionately. &#8220;A thoroughly nice, trustful nature.&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;&#8216;He says,&#8217; &#8216;she says,&#8217; &#8216;they say.&#8217; Bah! what does that mean? Nothing at  all. It may be absolute truth. It may be useful falsehood. Me, I deal  only with <em>facts.<\/em>&#8220;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>from <em>Poirot Loses a Client<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This is a fitting excerpt for today, given that I recently had a falling out with a old friend. In our quarrel, we had a lot of &#8220;you saids&#8221; and &#8220;you dids.&#8221; But how much of it was fact? I wonder. Feelings have a way of blinding us to the truth, and our memories tend to get twisted in our own favor. The voice dissipates, the exact words of a conversation fade away, and all that is left, if even so much, is a memory of the gist of what was <em>heard<\/em>. Only very rarely do we remember exactly the words that were spoken, and never do we get to hear the speaker&#8217;s true thoughts and motivations.<\/p>\n<p>How I wish we could just deal with facts!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here is another conversation between Poirot and his friend Hastings. &#8220;Mon ami&#8212;you know my suspicious nature! I believe nothing that any one says unless it can be confirmed or corroborated.&#8221; &#8220;That&#8217;s right, old boy,&#8221; I said affectionately. &#8220;A thoroughly nice, &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/?p=5006\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3,312],"tags":[417,418,79],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5006"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5006"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5006\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5010,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5006\/revisions\/5010"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5006"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5006"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bluefootedmusings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5006"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}