Eek!

My husband has been working on the stairs in preparation for carpeting them. He screwed down the treads so that they barely squeak now, if at all. That’s great. I mean, who wants squeaky stairs? But those squeaks were a head’s-up that someone was moving up or down the stairs. You always knew when someone was approaching. Now they can sneak up on you and surprise the snot out of you. Less squeak, more eek!

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Practically Perfect

Where the Mountain Meets the Moon by Grace Lin, A+

The plot: Young Minli runs away from home to find the Old Man of the Moon so that she can ask him how to change her family’s fortune for the better.

My impression: The narrative is beautifully structured–a series of stories within stories–and utterly charming. The only thing that bothered me a tiny bit while reading was not knowing if the stories were traditional or made up by the author. But, at the end, there is an “Behind the Story” chapter in which the author answered that very question! There may be no such thing as a perfect book, but Where the Mountain Meets the Moon comes as close as to make no difference.

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It’s All in the Decorations

Back when the kids were really young, I was hoping to be able to turn my office into a sort of magical place for them. I ran out of steam (and money) and gave up on the dream. I had never mentioned that to Livia, so I was pleased when she recently said to me, “You know, your office used to seem like a magical place to me when I was younger….” It was the books, she explained. Duh. The books are magical. I knew that. I just hadn’t realized that they could imbue the whole room with magic. Good thing I used so many of them in my decorating scheme! ๐Ÿ˜‰

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2/18/2024

  • I’ve had my skin turn red from using Band-Aids before, which I attributed mostly to the trauma of removing them, but yesterday I had a telltale allergic reaction to one. I developed hives underneath the adhesive parts of the bandage. I hope it’s not a latex allergy. That would be troublesome.
  • It snowed yesterday, briefly, and for the first time this season, I let the snow draw me outside. The snowfall was over by the time I got out, sadly, but I took a walk anyway and enjoyed the wintry scenery. Now that my knee is feeling better, I can walk for exercise, and I’ve been walking at least a few times per week.
  • Last night the kids and I finished watching the Percy Jackson series on Disney+. We all enjoyed it and are hoping for a second season. Often we snack on popcorn when watching TV together, but we somehow ran out of popcorn (mon dieu!). So we snacked on SweeTARTS Ropes instead. Those things are so tasty. We are all addicted now. (Blame my hubby. He brought them home and got us hooked on them.)
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Said Is Simplest

Cleaning off my desk, I found a printout with the title “Said is Dead.” It’s a list of words that can be used as speech identifiers in place of “said.” As a writer, I think it’s a handy list. But I also think said is simplest and that going out of your way to avoid it is silly.

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Four Truths

I found a printout on my desk that listed these “Four Truths.”

  1. We can’t finish what we don’t start.
  2. The only way to the end is through.
  3. It’s important to celebrate our accomplishments.
  4. We must forgive ourselves for that which we have simply not done yet.

My thanks to the originator, though I do not know who it is.

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Snow Day

  • It’s snowing today. Yay!
  • On the weather page of one of the local TV stations, I saw a great typo: “A few altercations to our storm forecast. . .”
  • Normally I’d have my music lesson this afternoon, but I rescheduled for Thursday. I was also supposed to go in for a mammogram today, and I rescheduled that as well. Unfortunately, today’s appointment was already a rescheduled one. Because booking is so far in advance, my new date is in June, which is a long wait. I’m not really worried about my health, just annoyed that I’m not getting my money’s worth from my health insurance.
  • The kids got the day off from school. It was announced yesterday, so we didn’t even have to get up early this morning to check our messages. I slept in, and it was so nice!
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Stories About the Kids

Kids are constantly growing, constantly changing. That means you can’t keep a post called “Stories About the Kids” in your drafts folder for a long time and expect that it will continue to be relevant. With that thought in mind, here’s a post called “Stories About the Kids” that’s been sitting in my drafts folder for a long time.

  • Livia graduated 5th grade and is now officially a middle-schooler. (Editor’s note: Livia is now in 7th grade, so that element of shock is over.)
  • Marshall turned 13. OMG. (Editor’s note: Marshall will turn 15 in June, at which time we will reach a whole new level of OMGishness. Livia’s the one who’s 13 now. Whoa!)
  • Since Marshall’s annual checkup, at which the doctor told him how important it was to get physical activity, he has gone outside and ridden his bike nearly every day. (Editor’s note; Regretfully, this did not last. I can’t remember the last time he rode his bike.)
  • I think it was during RICAS (Rhode Island’s version of standardized testing) that Livia was given some word seeks to do. After finding the words she was supposed to find, she then made lists of all the words that she wasn’t supposed to find. She also made a diagram showing all the ways to break the word PAINT down into shorter and shorter words (such as PAINT, PANT, PAN, AN, A). Wow, she could get a job working with me! (Editor’s note: This story is still apt. She’s very much a word-person, and I swear she could put some of my coworkers to shame.)
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Conversations With Livia

  • I sometimes keep a box of instant oatmeal in my office. I like instant oatmeal for those days when I’m feeling lazy. Then I don’t have to go downstairs to get breakfast. I can just make the oatmeal in my coffee mug using hot water from my electric kettle. But the thing about oatmeal is that I can’t stand it when it’s thick and dry. Blech! So I deliberately make it extra watery. Livia thinks that’s appalling, and when she came into my office to grab a couple of packets of the oatmeal for breakfast the other day, she joked, “I’m saving them from becoming mug soup.” Ha-ha.
  • Livia and I were talking one day when she suddenly stopped and wrote down something I’d said. It was “If you wait around for the perfect idea, you’ll never get anything done.” There’s truth in that, and though I’m not the first person to have said something along those lines, I was flattered to have been quoted. It makes me feel all wise-like, which is better than being all wise-guyish, which is more my usual thing.
  • There’s apparently a golden retriever that runs around the neighborhood unchained. I don’t like it when dogs run loose, but if you have to have a free-roaming dog, a golden retriever’s not a bad choice. From what I’ve seen and heard, they’re sweet dogs, friendly if not particularly intelligent. According to Livia, this dog showed up at the end of the driveway yesterday while she was waiting for the bus, and when the bus arrived, the dog got on the bus, twice! Maybe it’s not the smartest dog, but at least it’s trying to get itself educated. ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Reading Report: Late January 2024

I just finished my fourth book for January 2024. It was The Name of the Wind by Patrick Rothfuss. I gave it a B grade.

I may raise or lower that grade later, depending on how the book sits with me. It probably deserves worse, to be honest, but I’m trying not to be too vengeful in my grading. You see, it’s a 662-page book in which almost nothing happens. It leaves numerous questions unanswered and is clearly nothing but a set-up for a series. That kind of book always leaves me feeling not only disappointed but also manipulated.

You’d think you’d get more from a book blurbed by Ursula K. Le Guin, Terry Brooks, and Orson Scott Card! I bought the book on impulse, while at a bookstore, after having had it recommended to me repeatedly. So I paid full price, and that doesn’t help with my feelings of having been manipulated.

Is it a bad book? No. Does it have problems? Yes, it does. Am I going to go into them? Not really. I’m just going to give a brief description of the story. It’s a fantasy novel about a man named Kvothe who is famous in his world, but he’s currently living incognito as an innkeeper in an out-of-the-way town. He is tracked down by someone called the Chronicler to whom he agrees to tell his life’s story.

After reading all 662 pages, I still don’t know why the character is famous, or why he’s hiding out, or much about his world except that it has Gypsy wannabes, dragon wannabes, fairy wannabes, and some form of magic. The text is perfectly readable, good at times, but it leaves just too many questions unanswered.

I ordered the second book of the series from the library. At the time I requested the book, I thought I’d probably read it, because I wanted to at least know why I’d bothered with the first one. But, according to Wikipedia, the two books are part of an intended trilogy, and the third book hasn’t been published yet, even though the second book came out in 2011. And after reading the Patrick Rothfuss page at Wikipedia, I’m not so sure I should even bother with the second book. Shame on all the Rothfuss fans who keep recommending the unfinished series even though the author keeps leaving them hanging!

Just goes to show, you listen to other people’s book recommendations at your own peril.

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