Eager to Travel

All four of us applied for our passports at the same time. We paid an extra $60 to expedite the passport of the one person who needed it soonest. Ironically, that’s the passport that took longest to arrive. Who could have imagined that our non-expedited applications would be processed so quickly? Anyway, they all arrived much sooner than expected, and I’m excited that we all finally have our passports. I’m looking forward to planning a big family trip or, at the very least, visiting Canada the next time we’re near the border.

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Reading in 2025

My goal for 2025 was to read 32 book. According to my list I read 38, but because 11 of them were children’s picture books, it would be fairer to say that I only read 27. Sigh. It’s not as much as I’d hoped, but it’s also not nothing. And don’t get me wrong about the picture books. I love them. They’re just not what I’d intended to fill my list with.

On the plus side, here are some types of books that I clearly enjoyed filling my 2025 reading list with.

  • Good mysteries: The Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman
  • Sad but well-written speculative fiction: Klara and the Sun by Kazuo Ishiguro
  • Fictional memoirs of intrepid women explorers: A Natural History of Dragons: A Memoir by Lady Trent by Marie Brennan
  • Nonfictional memoirs and musings: Walking: One Step at a Time by Erling Kagge and Never Have Your Dog Stuffed: And Other Things I’ve Learned by Alan Alda
  • Good short story collections: Buried Deep and Other Stories by Naomi Novik
  • Super kind and inclusive sci-fi: A Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet and A Closed and Common Orbit by Becky Chambers
  • Super kind and inclusive romance: The Very Secret Society of Irregular Witches and A Witch’s Guide to Magical Innkeeping by Sangu Mandanna
  • Classic children’s literature: Ballet Shoes by Noel Streatfeild, Runaway Ralph by Beverly Cleary, and Moominvalley in November by Tove Jansson
  • Rereads: City of Sorcery and Stormqueen by Marion Zimmer Bradley, and The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien

And here are some things I encountered in 2025 that I would rather avoid in the future: books with totally unlikable characters, books with awesome premises that ultimately don’t follow their own internal logic and consequently break your heart, and books that draaaaaaag.

My other reading goals for 2025 were to read more poetry (oops!), to finish at least 16 books from the BBC’s Top 100 Children’s Books list (my total was 13–not bad!), and to give away more books (there’s a big box of donations in the trunk of my car, just waiting to be dropped off).

Overall I did pretty well with my reading goals, and I will aim for the same ones this year. The only goal I truly failed on last year–reading more poetry–is not a hard goal. I have the wish. I just need to find the will. I hope this year will finally be the year.

Wishing everyone a wonderful year of reading in 2026!

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Intend Less and Do More

One morning last year I went downstairs to get myself a cup of coffee. On the counter, someone had placed a pie plate with an apple in the middle of it. Naturally, I knew my husband had put it there and exactly what he’d meant by it, but I joked with him that the message, if there were one, was too subtle and that I couldn’t imagine what it meant.

I didn’t tell him so, but I thought I would make the requested apple pie, just not that very day. The pie plate sat on the counter for a while, but then it got shifted to the table, where it sat forgotten and not rediscovered until we were frantically Christmas-cleaning. The apple had started to go bad–a sad but unsurprising end.

There is a moral to this story. We always have good intentions, but we do not always follow through. If each of our thoughts of “things we should do” were a drop of water, we would drown in the sea of our wishful intent. I don’t like living this way, always pushing things off, never actually getting to the “someday” when we thought we’d do all the things. We are ever getting older and closer to the ultimate deadline. So, in this new year, let’s intend less and do more.

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Reading Report: January 1, 2026

My last book of 2025 was Daggerspell by Katharine Kerr. Daggerspell is an epic fantasy novel from the late ’80s. The story takes place in ancient Wales (or a Welshlike world), where three noblemen vie for the love of the same woman and it ends tragically. But then reincarnation, fate, and magic work to keep bringing their souls back to life until they set things right.

In their third incarnation, the souls are reborn as the mercenary knight Cullyn and his sword-fighter daughter Jill, and the lord Rhodry who becomes Jill’s love interest. There is also Nevyn, an herbalist/magician who is the only survivor of the initial tragedy. He cannot die until all their souls have lived up to their destiny, so he watches over the others and attempts to guide them in the right direction.

Daggerspell held my interest pretty well for most of its 454 pages, though I could have lived without the incest scene (ick!) from the characters’ first incarnation. I also struggled to get through the last 100 pages or so. That may have been a pacing issue but more likely my mood. I thought that the book’s magical system and reincarnation angle were interesting, so I ultimately gave it a B+ grade, meaning I enjoyed it but won’t keep it. For readers who really enjoy Daggerspell, there’s a whole series that follows.

I am currently reading Verity by Colleen Hoover. I’m about 110 pages into this so-called “standalone romantic thriller,” and so far I would describe it as gripping and very, very spicy. I’m interested to see where it goes.

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Bad Week, Good Week

To say it was a tough week would be an understatement. It wasn’t just the illness and subsequent death of my FIL. It was also our own ongoing health issues, the horrors of the world, plus some small but really irritating things, such as a mouse incursion in our kitchen that grossed us out and required a lot of extra cleaning at a time when we’re like, “Can we please not?”

But I don’t want to overlook two of the best things about the week. On Tuesday, I went in for a second mammogram because the first one, done a few weeks ago, had revealed an anomaly. The nice thing about secondary mammograms is that there’s a radiologist on-hand so that you can get your results within minutes, and my results were good–everything was normal, no cancer detected. So that’s one good thing. (Note: while I was waiting for my results, I chatted with another woman also awaiting results. She was there because she’d found a lump. Before I left I wished her good luck and happy holidays, and I’m still thinking of her and sending good wishes her way.).

The other good thing is that we spent extra time with the kids. On Wednesday, we went to get our passport pictures taken. On Thursday, we went to the library to submit the passport forms. Both trips were extended by other stops, so there was plenty of time for miscellaneous conversation, and I enjoyed it all very much.

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Crying

My father-in-law died last night. It was not unexpected, except in the sense of it happening so soon. We thought we’d have a few more days. I’d hoped to bring the children to say good-bye. But when the ringing of the phone woke me this morning before 8:00 a.m., I knew it could not be a good thing.

From bleary-eyed to teary-eyed, I must look a wreck. This music by Ravel (another version given below) is somehow really turning on the faucet. I don’t know why I keep listening to it, but I have to.

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As Expected

It’s been over a month since I quit my music composition lessons. I have started several new pieces, but I haven’t written more than a few measures for any one of them. Without someone to push me, I don’t know how to move beyond the point of initial inspiration. 🙁

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Cheatah Time

It’s not even Thanksgiving yet, but I have already officially started Christmas shopping. I want to believe this will somehow give me an edge on the holiday. But, thinking back on the past, I know I’ve started my holiday prep before Thanksgiving in previous years and that it hasn’t kept me from stressing out in December.

However, I know something that is guaranteed to give me an edge: cheatah bags. They saved my life last year. So what I really should do is check my supplies, make sure I know where they are and that I have enough of them. I don’t want to mess around with wrapping this year unless necessary.

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Critters, Critters Everywhere

Our back patio had always been cracked, most likely damaged by the roots of the tree that used to be next to it. We finally had some cement workers come out here to replace it. They stamped the new patio with a pattern similar to the pavers we used on the front walkway. But, at some point between the stamping and the drying of the cement, one or more critters left a bunch of weird marks in it. At least we assume that’s what happened, because what else could explain it?

The marks are annoying and amusing at the same time. When you pay a lot of money for a job to be done, you want it to be as close to perfect as possible. But, when you live in the woods you have to accept that there are critters everywhere and that they will make themselves known.

My #1 suspect is Chippy. Chippy is the name of every chipmunk, but in this case I’m referring specifically to the one I kept seeing on the old patio. Maybe he was living there, or maybe it was just a favored hangout. Either way, I can hardly blame the little guy for trying to return to it.

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Reading Report: Late November 2025

Here’s what I’ve been working on since my last reading report.

  • The Caliph’s House: A Year in Casablanca by Tahir Shah: I was just starting this one at the time I wrote my last reading report. I liked the premise, and the beginning was encouraging. But, the way Shah described the locals and their actions, I couldn’t tell if he was an elitist, a rube, and/or making stuff up. That uncertainty made me uncomfortable, and I stopped reading.
  • Moominvalley in November by Tove Jansson: I did what I said I’d do. I applied myself to it and finished it within a few days. There’s not much to the story: some friends and acquaintances of the Moomins gather at their house, only to find that the Moomins are not at home; they stay there for a time, doing ordinary things, such as preparing dinner and raking leaves, and then they go their separate ways again. But it’s not really about the story. It’s about the turning of the seasons and experiencing that sort of sweet-and-melancholy feeling of Fall. It’s excellent if you’re in the right mood for it.
  • The Maze Runner by James Dashner: I got stalled on this one. Then I saw that the movie was available to stream for free, so I watched it. Boy, was it lame. But I will probably finish the book, even though I know how it turns out, just because I’m more than halfway though.
  • The Girl with All the Gifts by M.R. Carey: I keep meaning to get back to this one. I hope I will before I forget what I already read of it.
  • I reread three books: City of Sorcery and Stormqueen by Marion Zimmer Bradley, as well as The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien. The Hobbit was as adorable and light-hearted as I remembered, nothing like those atrocious films that Peter Jackson made from it.
  • I also read What Art Does: An Unfinished Theory by Brian Eno and Bette A.. I gave the book a B+, because I found it to be, as the title says, “unfinished.” That is, though I appreciate the authors’ efforts and ideas, the book needs more meat to it.
  • Currently reading: Never Have Your Dog Stuffed: And Other Things I’ve Learned by Alan Alda. I’m enjoying it so far (132/224 pages). One benefit of having watched so many episodes of M*A*S*H in my life is that I can hear the narration in Alda’s voice.
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