Blue-Footed Musings

Screen-free evenings are creating new habits and patterns in our lives. Now, on Tuesdays and Thursdays, we can’t just settle in for another evening of mindless streaming, social media, or video games. We have to find other ways to amuse ourselves. We’ve done a lot more reading. We’ve also had a lot of family game nights. Last Thursday’s game was Bananagrams, a game which is a lot like my day job. After we were done playing, Marshall and I built a word grid together that included references to “Star Trek” (such as the word QUADRANT crossing ALPHA, BETA, GAMMA, and DELTA) and words from his recent science classes (such as ORGANELLE and CYTOPLASM). I thought that this was more fun than playing Banagrams by the rules, and for us to enjoy the game more as a family we need to adapt the rules so that we are working together rather than against one another.

The pattern of screen-free evening shows itself in our Internet usage, my husband reports. It’s also starting to show itself on my blog. My husband asked how I’d managed to a post book review on a Tuesday. The answer is that I had scheduled the post in advance. Between work and screen-free evenings, I don’t have much time for writing blog posts during the week, so I have to write them on the weekend. When scheduling posts for the week, I rarely get past Wednesday, so Thursdays and Fridays tend to be left empty.

It will be interesting to see if these new habits and patterns continue. Screen-free days are sometimes difficult for all of us. There are times when the kids complain, and that’s frustrating. I feel their pain. I really do. I sometimes find screen-free evenings to be difficult, too, and I’ve tried to make the kids understand that. Screen-free evenings are not some terrible parental method for torturing children. They’re good for all of us, and we all need them.

The CDC announced shortly before I got my second dose of vaccine that vaccinated people no longer had to wear masks. I was a little cheered by the announcement. I mean, hooray for normalcy! And it’s great to know that vaccinated people are unlikely to spread the virus. But I was also a little dismayed, and the more time I have to think about it and see the way people are reacting, the more dismayed I become. So I’m going to share an updated version of the journal entry that I wrote about the announcement at the time it was made, because I need to get these feelings off my chest.

The first thing that bothers me is that I can’t trust the CDC anymore. Does anyone? This pandemic was their chance to shine, and boy, did they not. So, when they tell us something that is at odds with what we’ve been hearing from other epidemiologists, it just makes me question the CDC’s credibility even more.

Second, I may not be a doctor, but I do know that the vaccine works well against some variants and less well against others. I know that there may be variants already in existence or soon to arise that could evade the vaccine entirely. The virus may be flagging here and, to an extent, under control, but it is spreading rapidly in other places, and new variants are popping up all the time. It’s important to note that some of those other places had seemed to have the virus under control, only to face a devastating new wave of infection later. So, we would be foolish to think that our vaccines are bullet-proof and that the pandemic is over for us.

Then there are the social and political issues that go along with masking. You just know that the people who don’t want to be vaccinated are going to give up masking too, and indeed there are already reports of that happening. The majority of people are probably going to go unmasked now. Those who want to continue wearing masks could face ridicule, or worse, from both the extreme Right and the extreme Left. And though individual states, towns, schools, and businesses may have their own mask mandates, those mandates have lost the strength that the CDC backing gave them. There are those will ignore them now, saying, “The CDC says I don’t need to wear a mask, and I’m not going to.”

Looking at it from another angle, it’s unwise to ask some portion of the population to wear something distinctive that the other portion doesn’t have to wear. None of us ought to be branded that way. That’s been done before, as any student of history can tell you, and it’s a bad idea. That alone ought to be enough reason for all of us to continue to wear masks. Besides, WTF happened to “we’re all in this together”?

And let’s not forget how hard it was to get people to wear masks to begin with. If they’re told later down the line that they need to start masking again, how will they react? I can just imagine. They were mulish enough the first time. They might refuse entirely next time. We’re all weary of this pandemic, and none of us would want to mask again. It would feel like a step backward.

Lastly, there are some people who cannot be vaccinated, either because of age (like our children) or because they have medical conditions that prevent it. What protection do they have now from the unvaccinated who refuse to mask? Very little. Most of them will continue to wear their masks, for the small amount of protection that that offers. But, we have been told all along that masks are more effective at blocking the spread of the virus at its source. That is, we wear masks for other people, not ourselves. Now, that protection is gone.

So, the CDC announcement seems premature at best and full-on stupid at worst. They should have waited. A few more months of masking weren’t going to hurt anyone. The more I think about it, the less optimistic I am. But done is done, and all we can do now is hope that the CDC hasn’t just made yet another blunder. I will continue to wear a mask myself, if only to encourage others to do the same.

On Tuesday our regular morning routine was interrupted by a toilet delivery. It’s not every day that toilets are delivered to one’s house, so it seemed worth mentioning. However, since a random toilet delivery would be an especially odd and even disturbing thing to happen, I should also mention, in case you haven’t already guessed, that we’re updating our bathrooms.

Also worth mentioning is that these are Toto toilets, which use little water and require little cleaning, supposedly. I’ve read the cleaning instructions, and though they don’t say “Everything you know is wrong,” they might as well. No bathroom cleaning product that I currently use can be applied to these special toilets. Nothing abrasive, not even standard toilet brushes. No bleaches, alkalis, or acids. In fact, the instructions recommend dish soap and soft cloths. Once the toilets are installed, I will have to totally (or should I say Toto-ally?) rethink how I clean.