Strange Weather Day

Today we awoke to a winter wonderland.

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Snow-Covered Trees

The flowers didn’t love this type of April shower. The daffodil buds were fine, but most of the daffodils that had flowered already were completely crushed to the ground and covered by snow. Only a few yellow blooms were still visible.

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Sad Daffodil

The crocuses got thoroughly smushed, and many of the hyacinths, too, but a few fared better.

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Hyacinths Standing Tall

Since then we’ve had periods of snow interspersed with periods of bright springtime sun. In fact, the sun was shining while I wrote most of this post, but then the sky clouded over and snow started to fall. Minutes later, the sun was back. My mom says the weather has been behaving similarly at her house. It is a strange weather day.

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The Ghost Vanisher

Dear Kids,

One day Marshall came home from school and announced, “Mom, one of the kids on the bus told me that ghosts are real. He knows because he saw one!” The last thing I needed was for Marshall to start fearing ghosts, so I told him that I don’t believe in them. I’ve been alive for a lot longer than that kid, and I’ve never seen one. But of course, Marshall ignored me, because that kid had SEEN a ghost. That made him an expert in Marshall’s eyes.

I knew I was fighting a losing battle. This new belief in ghosts, because it was exciting in a scary sort of way, was going to be hard to dislodge from his head. Talking about it more was only going to make it worse. I decided to let the matter drop and hope that it went away.

But it didn’t. He shared the story with Livia, and the next thing I knew, it was bedtime, and Livia was telling me that ghosts are real and you’ll die if they bite you. Great. Try explaining to two excitable kids at bedtime, when it’s dark outside and the lights are about to go out, that ghosts aren’t real. No way that’s going to work.

So I switched tactics. I called downstairs to your dad, “Hey, honey. Do we still have that ghost banisher?”

“Yes!” he called back. “I’ll go get it!”

It took him a while to find the ghost banisher. By the time he got upstairs with it, Marshall had started calling it a “ghost vanisher,” which was even better. The ghost vanisher turned out to be a sheet of foil held aloft with the grabby tool (I’m not sure what the actual name for that is. It’s that long tool that has a handle on one end which you squeeze to close the pincers at the other end).

He waved the ghost vanisher all round the bedroom and the adjoining bathroom. As he worked, you asked, “Is that a real thing, Mommy?” This was an application of foil that you’d never seen before, and you were skeptical. I said, “It’s not tin foil. It’s anti-ghost foil. Different stuff, and way more expensive.” Still not quite believing, you asked, “Will it really work?” “Yes,” I assured you. “If there are ghosts, this will get rid of them.”

Your dad completed his task, but you still weren’t satisfied. He had forgotten to treat the area near the windows. So, wonderful dad that he is, he came back and ghost-vanished the windows. You wanted him to come back yet again to treat the area under your beds, but I explained that we only had to do the entry points (doors and windows), so you were all set. And amazingly, we heard no more worries about ghosts that night. You went to sleep pretty quickly.

The next day, I asked Marshall if he had seen any ghosts the previous night. He had not. I said that the ghost vanisher must have worked. He agreed, but he felt that more applications might be necessary come nighttime. “No,” I said. “Anti-ghost foil is strong stuff. It will last a couple of months.” So Marshall reminded your dad that he would need to reapply the ghost vanisher in two months exactly. Your dad agreed, and that was that. We’ve heard no ghost talk since.

The moral of this story is that sometimes people need something comforting to believe in. Your dad and I gave you that. And while it may not have been the “real thing” that you wanted it to be, please keep it. Someday, if you have kids of your own, you might need the ghost vanisher again.

Love,

Mom

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Ups & Downs

  • After cleaning for my mom’s visit, my office is nice and tidy. I love it!
  • But my mom canceled her visit, because she had an allergic reaction to something that she had eaten. I am worried about her, since allergic reactions can be tricky. I have been keeping tabs on her via Facebook, but I hate being so far away.
  • I continued cleaning, even after the pressure of the impending Mom visit was gone. Hooray!
  • But I found some really gross stuff. Ew. Ew. Ew. Cleaning sucks!
  • I chucked a bunch of old stuff that clearly we did not need or want.
  • But I couldn’t make myself get rid of other things that are cluttering up our lives. I am becoming a hoarderer. I bow my head in shame.
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Fourth of 2016

The Invention of Everything Else by Samantha Hunt

Grade: B+

I just finished my fourth book of 2016, The Invention of Everything Else by Samantha Hunt. The main character is Louisa, who works as a maid in a New York hotel where an aging Nikola Tesla is living out his last days.

I wanted to like this book, and though I did admire its surreal quality, I struggled to stay focused on the narrative. It took three tries before I could get through it, and only sheer stubbornness kept me going. Why wasn’t this novel about Tesla, New York City, and time travel more engaging? Was the problem with me or the book?

I’m not sure. I haven’t been in much of a mood for reading, but maybe had the book been really good it would have pulled me out of my bad mood. Who knows?

So I’ve given this book a B+, the safest grade. The B+ grade says, “I don’t want to read this again, but it’s not necessarily a bad book.”

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On Medicine

My mother-in-law and I were chitchatting about how it usually takes a few weeks to get rid of a cold. She herself had a lingering cough, even after having taken a course of antibiotics for bronchitis. She said, “It’s like my sister always used to say–30 days with medicine, 31 without.”

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The Best Audience

Dear Kids,

I write you letters on my blog because I want to remember all the good times that we’ve had together. Thanks to these posts, our family stories will last not only the lifetime of this blog, but also the lifetime of the photo albums in which I print them. I also like to think that someday, when you’re older, you’ll enjoy reading them. That’s why I write the stories in letter format and address them to you.

But it turns out that you already like to hear some of them. I read you a few of the stories from your baby albums last night, and you were thrilled. Livia loved hearing about the song “Fast Moving Baby” that I wrote for her when she learned to crawl. Not only does she like being the subject of a song, but she thinks it’s might funny that baby Livia used to climb on chairs and mess with my computer. Marshall particularly liked the post that I wrote about his clock radio. Lately he’s been enjoying listening to the radio’s nature sounds and songs. It amazes him that he was once a baby and that baby Marshall listened to the same things.

You have no idea how happy it made me to read these stories to you and to have you like them. And this couldn’t have happened at a better time. You see, I had just been to the office and found out that another of my coworkers has published a book. That makes at least five coworkers, past or present, to have done so. And the latest issue of my alma mater’s alumni magazine is, as usual, practically bulging with publication announcements. Not that I begrudge any of these people their successes, but they could make a person feel a little inadequate.

When you listened to my stories, laughed at the little jokes in them, and then asked to hear more, you made it all better. My audience may be small, both in number and in stature, but it’s the best audience in the world. Even if I never write anything else or have another audience, I will at least always have this wonderful memory. Thank you!

Love,

Mom

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The Day Spring Came to Town

I can pinpoint almost exactly when spring arrived this year. When I went walking on March 7, I found that winter had not yet packed up all of its ice.

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Needle Ice

But winter was clearly on its way out. Even in the shadow of the overhanging rock, only a few icicles and icy stalagmites, reduced to nubs, remained.

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Lingering Icicles

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Melting Nubs

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Melting Nub With Pretty Bubbles Trapped Inside

And the Icefalls, which were so dramatic last year, even in March, were almost completely gone. Here is all that was left of them.

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The Last of the Icefalls

By the time I went walking again, two days later, there was not a crystal of ice to be found anywhere in the woods. Spring had come to town.

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The Weight of Snow

The snowstorm of February 4-5, 2016 was a remarkable one. Though I had been very lazy during the winter up to that point, I couldn’t resist the lure of all that snow. I decided to go for a hike.

But this snowstorm had packed a special kind of punch. The snow was unusually wet and weighty, and as I dressed to go outside, my husband said, “Hey, be careful.” When I asked him why, he mentioned the possibility of falling tree limbs. That hadn’t ever been a problem for me before, so I wasn’t that worried about it. I put on my warm clothes and boots and went outside. Here is what I saw as I exited the house.

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Is That a Tree or an Umbrella?

The snow had collapsed the pine tree like an umbrella. There were weighted-down tree limbs all around, and at least one noticeably broken one.  The snow often weighs limbs down, though, so I still wasn’t that worried. I headed up the hill, and I was delighted to see the entrance to the path. It looked magical, as it often does in the snow.

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Gateway to a Magical World

I entered the woods, but I didn’t get very far. Ahead were a bunch of small trees that had been pulled over. They looked worse the closer I got. In fact, they were blocking my path.

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What a Drag!

Wow. I felt so bad for these trees that I tried to remove some of the weight. The snow resisted. It clung so tightly that I had to shake the trees violently to knock it off. I started to worry about damaging the trees, though I thought I was probably helping more than hurting. But I was also getting soaked and chilled, especially from the snow that fell on top of me and went down my shirt (brr!).

Meanwhile, I had started to notice the occasional sharp sound coming from the woods. It happened every few minutes. Each one was the sound of a limb snapping. I started to wonder if my husband had been right. Maybe it wasn’t the best time for a hike. Then I saw something to convince me.

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Tree Across the Path

A large tree arced across my path. This was no shrub or sapling, but a very tall tree that had once had a straight trunk. Trees should not be bent like that. It was dangerous, and I needed to leave.

I didn’t go inside quite yet. I still wanted some exercise, so I shoveled part of the driveway. In retrospect, I probably shouldn’t have been outside even for that. I didn’t allow the children out, though, until the snow had melted off the trees. They cried, and I felt bad, but it was a wise decision. Later we heard that two local people had died that day from falling limbs. It was heartbreaking. One of them was a girl about Marshall’s age. She had been playing in her yard when it happened.

I still love the snow. It can be so beautiful. It can be so much fun. But it’s dangerous, too, in a lot of ways. We forget that at our own peril.

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Spring Whites

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Crocuses Don’t Mind the Snow

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Welcome, Spring! Or Not

Marshall started complaining about a sore throat last week. Since we were all sick, I didn’t think much of it. I just mentally filed it under “Contact Doctor If Symptoms Do Not Improve.” He didn’t seem feverish, or incapacitated in any way, so we sent him to school as usual.

Then on Friday night he got a bad earache. He was in a lot of pain, but it was so late that the doctor’s office and the urgent care clinics were all closed. We knew from experience that the emergency room is a bad idea, so we had no choice but to wait for the morning. We gave him ibuprofen, but the doses just didn’t last long enough for him. He kept us up half the night with his crying. It was horrible for everyone except Livia, who seems to have slept through it all.

We called the doctor the next morning, and they told us to “wait and see.” But later that day, just after the doctor’s office had closed, he started leaking fluid out of the ear. At that point, I convinced my husband to take Marshall to the nearest urgent care center, which is not only very close, but dedicated to children’s care.

I’m glad that I did. First they told us what we already suspected: ear infection and ruptured eardrum. But then they slammed us with the unexpected part: walking pneumonia.

Walking pneumonia? That sounds scary! The word “walking” makes me think of the zombie show, “The Walking Dead.” That makes “walking pneumonia” seem like it must be the worst thing ever.

It’s probably not quite as awful as that, though. My research indicated that it’s a specific type of germ that causes it, and it’s considered a mild form of pneumonia. But still, it’s pneumonia, and that’s something that you don’t want.

The ruptured eardrum also sounded bad. But again, research was somewhat consoling. Ruptured eardrums seem to be relatively common among children (the same thing happened to me when I was a kid, and no one made a big deal of it). They’re usually small ruptures and heal up on their own, with no lasting hearing loss.

Anyway, to cure Marshall of his pneumonia, keep him breathing well, and help his ear heal, the doctor prescribed a bunch of medicines. It’s actually scary how many different meds he’s on. They seem to be working, though. He’s behaving like his usual self today.

But Livia, the poor girl, now has an earache of her own. And it’s too late to go to the doctor. And the nurse that we contacted through our doctor’s office says, “Wait and see.”

This scenario feels awfully familiar, and therefore sort of dangerous, and yet I’m not sure there’s anything to be done. When we researched ruptured eardrums, the information we found suggested that antibiotics don’t necessarily prevent it. And pneumonia, if she has it, can’t be treated until it’s diagnosed by a doctor. So there’s not much we can do. We’ll just have to “wait and see” and hope that things go better for Livia than they did for Marshall.

It’s likely to be another long night. And to make things worse, there’s a snowstorm bearing down on us. That could make a trip to the doctor’s office tomorrow rather difficult. The school board has already cancelled school for tomorrow, which is not a good sign.

This is no way to start the spring!

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