Life Without the Internet

A nor’easter hit the Northeast on the Sunday before last. Had it brought snow, who knows how bad the damage might have been. As it was, the winds (hurricane-strength in some areas) knocked down trees and power lines all over the place.

Our lights flickered, but we did not lose power for any extended period of time. We were very lucky. Not everyone else was. My sister-in-law lost power for several days. Our kids got two days off from school as the town struggled to get the power back on.

But our Internet was out for at least four days, leaving me cut off from the blog, my e-mail, my Facebook and Twitter feeds, Netflix, and also my workplace. Our telephone was out, too. I barely get a cell phone signal here, so I had to walk down the driveway just to call my boss and let her know I was offline.

It was strange to be cut off from the outside world like that. I had no idea what was happening out there in the world. I had this terrible, nagging feeling of things going bad at work. There was no way to know, and the whole episode made me realize how pathetically dependent we are on our wi-fi.

There was one benefit, though. Without the Internet to distract me, it was fairly easy to make myself sit down and write. I started NaNoWriMo on time. I didn’t write nearly enough, but at least it was something. I have written every day since.

Except today. I just don’t feel like it. I thought that maybe if I sat down in front of the computer I could convince myself to write. And I did, only I wrote this, which is not what I needed to be doing.

I’m not going to wish for more Internet or power outages. That would be stupid. But I do hope that I can learn to ignore the Internet when I don’t need it. I shouldn’t allow it to distract me from the things that are more important!

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Oh, Murphy, You Sly Dog

We had another power outage this afternoon. As the minutes turned into hours I was starting to worry about dinner, because I wouldn’t be able to cook without any electricity. So I called the hubby to ask him to bring dinner home with him.

He was too busy to talk right then, but he called me back half an hour later. “So, is the power still out?” he asked. “Yes,” I replied. “The power is still out. We are completely powerle…”

And at that very moment, like magic, the lights came back on.

Murphy’s Law strikes again!

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It’s a Law

We woke up this morning and found that we had no electricity. The kids had to eat cold cereal and drink bottled water for breakfast. After putting them on the school bus, my hubby and I went out for coffee.

When we got back home, my hubby asked what I was going to do. Normally at that time of morning I’d go online, check the news, and read my Facebook and Twitter feeds. That wasn’t an option with the wi-fi out. So my choices were to write, take a walk, play the piano, or go to work without any Internet access.

It was too early to start working. We suspected, though, that the other three choices would be subject to Murphy’s Law. Choosing any one of them was likely to bring back the power immediately, which would spoil all the fun.

Such a conundrum! I hesitated, hoping that the power would come back right then and spare me the choice. It didn’t, though, and time was a-wasting. I had to make a decision.

I chose writing. I ran upstairs, grabbed my notebook, and headed toward my desk. I was about three feet away when the lights flicked on.

Murphy’s Law—it’s not for nothing that it’s called a law!

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Sweet Mommy, Sweet Daughter

I usually get up late on the weekends. It’s my reward for getting up early during the week. When I finally dragged myself downstairs this morning my husband said, “Watch out, kids. It’s the Red Woman Morning Monster!” The kids thought that was pretty funny, but Livia gave me a hug and said, “No, you’re a Sweet Mommy Flower Delicate.”

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Before November

I’m giving some thought to joining NaNoWriMo this year. It’s the first year since Marshall was born that I feel like I could possibly have time. I certainly feel the itch to write!

I’m not sure I want to follow their rules and restrict myself to just their type of writing during one particular month, though. I’ve decided to postpone that particular decision until the last moment. But whether I join officially or not, I want to free up as much time for writing in November as possible.

In order to clear the way, there are some tasks that I need to take on now. I already wrote a letter of dispute over an excessively high medical bill. I finished the first volume of my nature book (the printout is en route as we speak!). I am tackling Laundry Mountain right now. I have already started Christmas shopping. So things are looking good.

But I still need to…

  1. Pay the regular bills and follow up on that disputed bill.
  2. Write blog posts about the kids so that I’ll have something to include in my year-end photo album
  3. Sort through the pictures I took this year and choose the ones I want in our year-end photo album. This is critical not only for the small, shared version of the album, which must be completed early in December, but also for our Christmas card.
  4. Get everyone’s Halloween costumes ready.

November, here I come!

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It’s Saturday

A Perfect Day for a Hike

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Books of Power

Dear Children,

One night, while eating dinner, we had a conversation about Books of Power. I don’t know how the subject came up, or why. And it was a strange conversation, because at first you and I had different ideas about what it meant. I don’t believe in the supernatural, but I do believe some things are magical. I had to walk a fine line, because you are still young enough to believe in objects that will literally give you supernatural power, and those things do not exist. I didn’t want to deceive you, and I certainly didn’t want you getting your heads twisted around the wrong way.

So the conversation become sort of metaphorical, but at its heart was a simple and rational idea: any book that teaches us something is arguably a Book of Power. I believed this so strongly that I allowed you to turn the conversation into a game of “Find the Books of Power!” You raided my office for books first. I guess you assumed that if we owned any really powerful books, they’d be in my office! I told you that you can’t know it’s a Book of Power until you’ve read it. However, I did agree to confirm for you (after you read it) whether or not it was one.

One of the books you chose was “What Do You Do With an Idea?” by Kobi Yamada. It came from my library, so you knew it had some special importance to me. It was an interesting choice because, like our conversation, it was a metaphor. It compared an idea to a funny-looking object that grows bigger and better as its fed. When Marshall finished reading the book aloud, both of you looked at me with shining eyes and asked, “Is this a Book of Power?”

I had to tell you that it was! I mean, knowing what to do with an idea is an incredibly powerful piece of knowledge. You could accomplish a lot in this world just knowing that one thing.

Next, Livia chose “The Runaway Bunny” by Margaret Wise Brown, and Marshall read it to us. Livia thought the message was that you should never run away. I suggested that it was about the strength of a mother’s love. When you asked if it was a Book of Power, I had to say that it was. There are some things you cannot run away from. A mother’s love is very strong, and you should never underestimate it.

While I was typing this story, you both came into the room with big smiles on your faces, having just read “The Angry Moon” by William Sleator. Livia said the “power” was about being brave. Marshall thought it was about not being mean (the Moon only got angry because its feelings had been hurt). You were both right. We must be brave when someone we love is in danger. It is best to be nice, and we can avoid a lot of trouble in life by not angering others unnecessarily.

Then you brought “The Whisper” (by Pamela Zagarenski) to me and happily announced that it was about Imagination. I asked you if that was a power, and you said, “Yes!” Livia explained how important imagination was in the story, and Marshall explained how important it is in Minecraft. You will find imagination helpful in many other ways over the years, I’m sure.

It was impressive how well you understood the themes in these books. And it was also impressive how you abandoned the idea of supernatural magic in favor of real learning. I believe these Books of Power are working on you right now, and that you are becoming more and more powerful with every word you read.

Someday, when you read this letter, maybe you will remember a sense of wonder at the very thought of a Book of Power. I want you to know that I feel it, too. A famous author once said that books are a kind of magic. It might have been Neil Gaiman, or Stephen King, or Jasper Fforde, or Carl Sagan, or more likely all of them, and many others beside. I hope you will always believe in the power of books.

Love,

Mom

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Strong Perfume

I have finally figured out why deodorants are so strongly perfumed. It’s for those days when you’re in a hurry, and you’re just about to run out of the house, and you wonder if you remembered to put on your deodorant. All you have to do is aim your nose roughly in the direction of your armpit and take the quickest of sniffs. You’ll know.

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SITY: High-Flying Spider

Spider, spider in the sky, waving just above my eye: I just want to say hello, and take your picture from below. Spider, spider in the sky, thanks so much for staying high (and not dropping on me while I was taking this picture).

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SITY: Halloween Decorations

I haven’t put up any Halloween decorations. I usually don’t, because we don’t get trick-or-treaters here, and I spend enough on costumes as it is. But out in the yard, the plants and animals have started creating their own holiday displays.

The Japanese andromeda is decorating with fake pumpkins.

And the spiders have really gotten into the spirit of the holiday!

 

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