Favorite Thing: Change

I like beginnings. I like positive progress. And I like them not just in the people and things around me, but also within myself. Here are some of the things that have changed in my life lately.

  • Marshall started preschool in August. He goes to school four days a week. Before he returns home each day, the teacher tucks a piece of paper into his backpack. It lists all the activities the kids did for the day. They play with Play-Doh and listen to stories and sing songs, among other things. Sometimes the teacher sends home Marshall’s craft projects. For example, he made a paper mirror (the “glass” part was a piece of tin foil) and he made a painting by rolling a paint-covered apple across a piece of paper. One day the teacher even sent home a photograph of Marshall. He was wearing a fireman’s hat and holding a fire hose (with a little help from the visiting fireman, of course). We love opening up his backpack and checking to see what treasure might be inside. We love knowing that he’s having a great experience at school, too.
  • We have eggs! Chicken eggs, that is. The hens finally started laying. My husband sometimes finds the eggs while they’re still warn. Talk about fresh!
  • We are no longer a single-vehicle family. We bought a truck. Why buy one now after all these years of getting by with just the car? We can afford it no better now than we could a couple of years ago. But we had some mechanical problems with the car, and that made us realize how much we need to have a working vehicle at all times. I’m not really a truck kind of person, but I’m willing to let my husband have his way in this. He deserves it.
  • As I mentioned before, I sent a story for publication. I’m glad I’ve changed to the point where I can do something like that. Once upon a time, I wouldn’t have been able to, because I used to worry too much about how people would react to my writing.
  • I’ve also come clean with my coworkers, disclosing the pseudonym under which I submit freelance work, and admitting to submitting other new ideas anonymously. I realized that I had, in some ways, taken anonymity to the point of near-invisibility, and I found that I didn’t like it.

Change is an especially fitting subject at this time of year. That’s probably part of what made me think of it. The leaves have been changing for a while now, but I still get a thrill every time I look up and see those glowing colors, and every time I see another leaf twirling down to the ground. I love the fall!

And that’s why Change is my Favorite Thing today.

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Rainy-Day Shoes

I drove to Connecticut on Thursday for work. As so often happens, the weather chose to be miserable for my trip. The drive in was just foggy and drizzly, but at about 6:30, just as I was getting ready to leave the office, the skies opened up. It poured so hard that the road flooded and I had to slog through six inches of water to reach my car.

The idea of driving all the way home with squelching feet and wet pants legs did not appeal. I stopped at Target to buy some cheap shoes and socks and to change into my spare pair of jeans. I didn’t want to spend a lot of money, so I went straight to the clearance rack. The selection was not huge, and my choice was further limited because I could hardly try on shoes with sopping wet feet. I had to eyeball the size.

The pair of shoes I ultimately bought wouldn’t have been my first choice in other circumstances, and they turned out to be a bit big, but there is something inherently awesome about a purple pair of shoes, don’t you think? I might actually like them.

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On Writing

Writer’s block might make my life difficult, but it can’t keep me down forever. Though I did not manage to finish my story for the latest round of NPR’s Three-Minute Fiction, I did write a rough draft of a short children’s story for the Highlights Fiction Contest. The deadline for the contest is January 31, 2013. That means I’ve got plenty of time. My plan is to write several appropriate stories and then send my favorite. Now, even if I don’t manage any more stories, I have one to work with. Plus I enjoyed writing it.

I once made a promise regarding another story that I wrote a long time ago. My promise was to submit the story for publication “by the end of the summer.” I didn’t, though, and I felt bad about it for a long time. A couple of weeks ago, I finally sent the story in. You could say it was “by the end of the summer” this year. Somehow that makes me feel a little better about the whole thing. Now I’m looking forward to getting my first rejection letter. I mean, no one gets published their first time out. The most you can hope for is an explanation of what you did wrong. So let’s hear it for constructive criticism! I hope they hit me with their best.

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Soldiering Through

The last few weeks have been miserable. I have not been able to combine words in any way that makes sense to me. Writing about books, which is normally merely a difficult task, has felt almost impossible. Even work has been difficult. I have had to soldier through work, though, and that’s good. Otherwise I would have gotten nothing done there, too. Now I’m going to try soldiering through some blog posts. First, I’ll tackle the non-Dahl books.

Coraline by Neil Gaiman
Grade: A-

Coraline’s family moves to a house which has an interior door that leads only to a bricked-up wall. Or so it seems, until one day she opens it up and finds another house and another pair of parents, so like her own, on the other side. Interesting and chilling, but it reminded me of Clive Barker’s The Thief of Always, which I think I might have liked just a tad better. I have heard such awesome things about Neil Gaiman, I feel like I ought to try all of his books. So far, I have read two (the other being Stardust). Both were good, but neither quite blew me away. I think I will try American Gods next, as one of my former coworkers gave it a rave recommendation.

The Forgotten Garden by Kate Morton
Grade: B+

In The Forgotten Garden, a girl is abandoned on a ship when she is very young. A nice family adopts her and she doesn’t remember having been abandoned. But years later, her adoptive father tells her about it and she’s devastated. She becomes obsessed with finding out who she really is, and she passes the obsession along to her granddaughter. The stories of that girl, her mother, and her granddaughter intertwine into one long, convoluted tale involving two old houses, a book of fairy tales, a forgotten garden, and buried secrets.

This is the second Kate Morton book I have read, the first being The Distant Hours, which I liked very much. The Forgotten Garden has a tie-in with one of my favorite books of all time, The Secret Garden, so it seems like I ought to have liked it more than the first. I didn’t.

I have my suspicions about why. One suspicion is that Morton writes the same book over and over, just with slightly different sets of characters and different houses as a settings. It might help explain why so many reviewers claim to love one of her novels while hating the next. Perhaps they see the second one as formulaic. I felt that way, anyway. Another suspicion is that she’s getting better as she goes along. There was more to The Distant Hours than just the story. There were little details and asides that made it special. Those things allowed me to ignore the book’s flaws. I did not notice those same details in The Forgotten Garden, and it didn’t speak to me the same way.

So my working theory is, I guess, that if you’re going to read a Kate Morton novel, pick the most recent. It’s probably the best. And if you choose to go back and read her older work, don’t be surprised if it seems similar.

The Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern
Grade: A

I really enjoyed The Night Circus. It had an interesting premise (a magical duel set amid a working circus). It was imaginative and well described. It was like a beautiful dream. If the main characters were, as I sometimes felt, a little weakly drawn, it was not enough to jar me from the dream. Thanks to my friend, Sprite, for sending this lovely book my way. I was in need of a good book and it arrived at just the right time!

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That’s Duckie

Here is the next book in my Dahl reading challenge.

The Magic Finger by Roald Dahl
Grade: B+

In this book, a young girl doesn’t like that her neighbors hunt for sport, so she uses her magic finger on them. Next thing you know, they’ve shrunk down to the size of ducks and their arms have transformed into wings, and then their house is taken over by human-sized ducks. Forced to fend for themselves in the outside world, how will they survive?

While the The Magic Finger is a simplistic “let’s see how you like it when the shoe’s on the other foot” tale, it’s cute and enjoyable, particularly the edition illustrated by William Pène du Bois.

The next book in my reading challenge will be Fantastic Mr. Fox.

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Time for Dahl

I didn’t forget about my Dahl reading challenge. I just got temporarily sidetracked by other things. On the bright side, the postponement improved the timing. You see, my husband, who picked up a bunch of Dahl books for me just the other day, says that September is Roald Dahl month (at our library, at least). That’s great. I’m glad I’m not the only one to be celebrating Dahl’s many wonderful children’s books at this time.

Last year, I started my reading challenge with The Gremlins: A Royal Air Force Story (The Lost Walt Disney Production). Next I read James and the Giant Peach, but I never sat down to write about it. Let me correct that oversight now. It was quite a while ago that I read it, but here’s what I remember

James and the Giant Peach by Roald Dahl
Grade: A-

Orphan James is miserable living with his abusive aunts. Then a mysterious stranger hands him a bag of magic crystals. When James accidentally spills the crystals on the ground, their magic seeps into the living things in the soil, including an old peach tree. A giant peach grows from the tree. The peach is big enough for James to crawl inside, and so begins his amazing adventure.

I liked James and the Giant Peach a lot. It’s fun and inventive, but like most of the Dahl books I’ve read so far, it’s not the least bit believable. That’s not a problem per se, but given the kind of reader I am, it means Dahl’s books have to work harder to win me over. So far, they’ve all had characters or other features that compensated for their lack of believability. So I’ll keep on reading them. Next up is The Magic Finger.

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Let’s Talk

Dear Children,

Some people hold their parents responsible for any difficulties they have with language. I suppose that is fair, to a point. Life is certainly simpler if you learn to speak correctly from the get-go. It’s best to have parents who speak the language well.

I suppose you could encounter some language challenges here. I like to mispronounce certain words or “riff” on them. I also sometimes make up my own words. I inherited this trait (as well as some mispronunciations and made-up words) from my parents. Add to this the language antics of your Portuguese grandparents, who are always saying things like “lindo, lindo” and “que linda” to you, and things could get a bit confusing. So I just want to apologize in advance, just in case…

  • Marshall thinks his real name is Marsh Man.
  • Livia thinks her real name is Goo-Goo or Linda.
  • You think that “fresh-up” and “boom-ba” are real words.
  • You use the word “chooch” in place of “chew,” or call syrup “surple.”

I make no apologies for my love of wordplay, though. It is what allows me to appreciate  the way you talk now. For example, Marshall calls the vacuum cleaner a “backineener.” Isn’t that great? And if he wants “another” of something, he says “noor.” Meanwhile, Livia says “meh” when she wants more, and one of her favorite words is “ish,” the meaning of which is still a mystery to us.

I think that if you pay attention you’ll probably learn to speak English coherently. With any luck, you’ll also pick up a good dose of Portuguese. And you might learn, as I did from my parents, how to enjoy language to the fullest. I hope you do.

Language is not just a tool, but also a toy. Have fun with it!

Love,

Mom

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I Just Finished Reading…

The Distant Hours by Kate Morton
Grade: A

It started with a letter. A letter that had been lost a long time, waiting out half a century in a forgotten postal bag in the dim attic . . . . I think about it sometimes, that mailbag: of the hundreds of love letters, grocery bills, birthday cards, notes from children to their parents, that lay together, swelling and sighing as their thwarted messages whispered in the dark. Waiting, waiting, for someone to realize they were there. For it is said, you know, that a letter will always seek a reader; that sooner or later, like it or not, words have a way of finding the light, of making their secrets known.

That first paragraph sets the stage nicely for what is to follow in The Distant Hours, a modern Gothic novel. Edie (the main character) is at home when her mother receives one of the long-lost letters. Her mother’s strange reaction to the letter puts Edie on the trail of a mystery that leads her to a decaying castle in Kent and the three old spinsters who live there.

It’s a good thing I bought this book on a whim and did not read the online reviews first. I am quite sure that the negative reviews (of which I later found many) would have turned me off. Usually online reviews work against me by convincing me to buy awful books. It never occurred to me that they could work against me the opposite way! But they certainly did. I postponed reading this book because I thought it was going to be terrible.

It wasn’t even close to terrible. Yes, the book is long (560 pages). Yes, the author does occasionally go into too much detail. Yes, the narrative goes back and forth between times and places and points of view, and some of it is told in the first person and some in the third person. So what? A quick look at the date at the top of each chapter lets you know when the action is taking place, and within a few sentences you know whose point of view you’re reading. It’s not that hard to follow.

In my opinion, Morton handled every element competently. The mystery was interesting, neither so convoluted that you couldn’t guess at the answers nor so obvious that you got bored. The pacing was good. I liked the characters and I was intrigued by their stories. I almost couldn’t put the book down.

In short, The Distant Hours is one of the best new books I’ve read lately.

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Favorite Thing: 1000

This is my 1000th blog post. I haven’t posted much lately, so I’ve been hanging on the edge of this milestone for a long time. It has been particularly irksome to have so much difficulty writing while knowing the 1000th post was that close. But now here it is. Whew!

To have done anything 1000 times is worthy of notice. Every little thing, from sneezing to opening the refrigerator door, could be interesting on the 1000th time, if you knew it were the 1000th time. But we usually don’t keep track of our activities that way. It would take too much effort, for one thing. There are also some activities that shouldn’t be counted. No one should aspire to break 1000 hearts or run 1000 stop signs, for example.

Blogging is special, though, and not just because the blogging software takes all the effort out of keeping count. Blogging is a form of self-expression. It requires time and work and creativity. To have done something of that nature 1000 times is very cool.

And that’s why 1000 is My Favorite Thing today.

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Grrr

You know what I really hate?

I really hate when I look on my computer and find files for unfinished stories, songs, letters, and puzzles. Lots of them.

Why don’t I ever finish these things?

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