SITY: More Moss

I love moss. It’s soft to walk on. Its greenness somehow makes a hot day seem cooler. It’s also beautiful.

Moss

More Moss

Moss and Partridge Berry

Just in case that wasn’t enough moss for you, here are links to previous posts that included pictures of moss: Seek and You Shall Find, Tiny Gardens, Picture My Walk, and SITY: Moss Is Awesome.

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SITY: Japanese Andromeda

Japanese andromeda is a wonderful shrub. It has beautiful, fragrant, long-lasting flowers in abundant clusters that provide a sumptuous feast for many different types of insects. But because the flowers are so unruly, they’re hard to photograph. I took shot after shot and ended up deleting most of them, but I kept a few. Here are my two favorites.

Japanese andromeda, expecting a guest

Japanese andromeda, close up, with a friend

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Dada!

Dear Livia,

Sometimes you are a lot like your brother. You do so many of the same things he did at your age, from throwing unwanted food off your tray, to shredding books, to climbing on the table, and on and on. I guess all children do those kinds of things.

That doesn’t mean you’re not unique. You put you own special spin on everything. For example, Marshall’s first word was “cookie.” You chose the remarkably similar “cracker” to be your first word, but then you amazed us by asking specifically for “graham cracker.” That was a mighty big phrase for such a small girl! You’re still so fond of graham crackers that your father and I sometimes have to refer to them in code. We call them “GC.”

Like Marshall before you, you point to the cat and say, “Dah!” And you point to the light and say, “Dah!” And like Marshall, you might be a little bit confused about the name “Dada.” For the longest time, Marshall would point to himself and say, “Dada!” So strongly did he seem convinced of this self-identity, we joked about him going through life using that name. But you have taken the dada thing to a whole new level. Not only Daddy, but also Marshall, the window, and the song “Pressure” are all “dada” to you. And one day you even pointed to yourself and said—yup, you guessed it— “Dada.”

In fairness to you, I must add that there seem to be slight differences in the way you say each dada. For example, Daddy is “Dada,” the window is more like “DAH-deu,” and Marshall is “DAAAH-da.” I think it’s great that you’ve picked up some of the the subtleties of language pronunciation, but if you don’t mind my making a suggestion, you really should work on the word “mama” a little bit more.

Love,

Mom

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SITY: First Tick?

I went outside today to check on Spring’s progress. I took some pictures. I forgot to do a tick check when I came inside. While it’s the only time I’ve forgotten since the weather turned warmer, I should be more careful. The ticks are out. Not only does common sense tell me that, but the local newspaper confirms it. The newspaper also says that this year will be even tickier than last. I can hardly bear to imagine that, but let’s assume it’s true.

Now look at the picture I took today.

There is a bug on the violet and it looks like a tick. If it is a tick, yuck. If it’s not a tick, it still makes me think of ticks, which is almost as bad. I touched that flower, so any bugs on it could have transferred themselves to me easily. Yuck more.

It’s fun to find the first violets and four-leaf clovers of the season. It is not fun to find the first tick. I have been bracing myself for this moment for weeks. I knew it was inevitable. I knew it would upset me. The question is whether or not it will keep me indoors most of the spring and summer.

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SITY: Lucky Find

I found the first four-leaf clover of the season.

I picked the clover and gave it to my husband, who gave it to our son. So I’m not sure which one of us gets the good luck. Maybe we share it?

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Favorite Thing: “3×5”

Ever since my friend posted a photo of a sunrise on her blog, I’ve had a John Mayer song stuck in my head. The song, from Mayer’s first studio album, Room for Squares, is called “3×5.” Ironically, the lyrics are about how he went outside without his camera because he wanted to concentrate on the experience rather than trying to take pictures. The reason the sunrise picture summoned this welcome “earworm” to mind is the chorus.

You should have seen that sunrise with your own eyes.
It brought me back to life.
You’ll be with me next time I go outside.
No more 3×5’s.

I like the sentiment. I like the bouncy rhythm of the song. “3×5” always makes me smile, and that’s why it’s one of My Favorite Things.

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SITY: First Violet

Living in a wooded area, we are fortunate to have a spot on our property that gets a lot of sun at this time of year. It’s where we planted all the daffodils. I noticed yesterday that a few violets had managed to sneak in there, too, and they’re happily soaking up the extra rays. Sleeping Beauty here is just about ready to get up and don her party dress.

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A Few of My Favorite Things

I have finally decided that my new Sunday feature will be My Favorite Things. It’s an upbeat category and it will remind me to be grateful for the good things in my life. The subject for any given week might be a song, poem, movie, book, photograph, kitchen gadget, quote, or anything else that I like and that I feel like writing about. Anything goes.

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Ribbit!

Ribbiting Tales, edited by Nancy Springer
Grade: A

Ribbiting Tales is a wonderful little collection of frog stories. The contributing authors are Bruce Coville, Robert J. Harris, Brian Jacques, Janet Taylor Lisle, David Lubar, Stephen Menick, Nancy Springer, and Jane Yolen. I particularly liked Nancy Springer’s story “Ahem,” in which a girl makes a wish that comes true in a most unexpected and froggy way. Great springtime reading.

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A Sunday Story, For Real

Sunday was my day off. Well, sort of a day off. I did laundry, washed dishes, cleaned the bathroom, paid bills, and watched the kids at times, so it’s not like I got to sleep the day away. But I did those tasks because I wanted to do them. There is something about choosing to do chores that makes even the worst of them seem not so bad. It still felt like a day off.

Since I didn’t sleep the day away, I also had time for other things, and I knew Sunday was the deadline for NPR’s 8th round of Three-Minute Fiction. I had been waiting for it because I thought it would be fun to try, but I was disappointed by the starting sentence they gave us: “She closed the book, placed it on the table, and finally, decided to walk through the door.” It just didn’t spark any ideas in my head.

I wrestled with it for days and finally found a story idea on Friday. I hated it. But I was so overwhelmingly grateful to the Muse for having delivered an idea that I considered writing the story anyway. Since I have ignored approximately 97% of the ideas she has bestowed upon me in the past, it was darned nice of her to stop by at all.

Sunday morning I decided not to bother with it. The story sucked, plus it wasn’t appropriate to the 600-word length limit, not to mention that there just wasn’t enough time left to write a good story.

Sunday evening rolled around and I got mad at myself. “You waited for weeks and now’s your chance and you’re not going to do anything? Seriously? What the hell is wrong with you?” Ashamed, I opened a text document and started to write. I had about five hours. That’s not a lot, but neither is 600 words.

I finished a somewhat intelligible draft at about 11:00. Then, as I and hundreds of other eager writer-would-be’s all attempted to live our last-minute dreams of glory, the server crashed and it seemed that all my effort was for nothing. I was tired and I wanted to go to bed, but stubbornness made me stay up to try again. I tweaked the story some more and then tried to upload it one last time at approximately 11:50 p.m.

It went through!

I still haven’t gotten my e-mail confirmation, but I feel confident that they got the story. With over 7,000 entries, they must be swamped. That would certainly explain the confirmation delay. I wouldn’t mind if they lost the story, though, because having sent it makes me feel like I have a big hole in the back of my pants and the whole world can see my underwear.

I’m trying not to feel that way. I’d rather have a positive attitude. The best argument I can make for that is to consider which of the following statements I’d rather my children used to describe me one day.

  1. My mother was a terrible writer, but she had a lot of fun. She taught me to enjoy life and follow my dreams.
  2. My mother was a great writer, but she never published anything. I don’t blame her. I don’t feel comfortable sharing my stuff with others either. Why set yourself up for failure and criticism?

Yeah, I like the sound of #1 better, don’t you? Having fun and setting a good example for my kids are both important to me. So what difference does it make if the world knows I’m wearing blue underwear with a lovely floral pattern?

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