Free Association

My father always jokes that free food doesn’t taste as good. In the rare cases when he dislikes his dinner, he’ll ask my mother, who does all the shopping, if the main ingredient was buy-one-get-one-free, or fifty percent off, or perhaps purchased with a coupon. He can’t really mean it. At least I hope he doesn’t mean it.  It would be a very silly thing to believe.

I happen to believe the exact opposite. Free food tastes great. I made a sandwich with English muffins today, English muffins that were free. Not only was it sort of a novelty to eat them, because I haven’t bought English muffins in years, but the very fact of their being free made me happy. Most of the time I have to give something up in order to save money, so I was thrilled that the grocery store sent me coupons that said, in effect, “Come get your free food!” I went and I went gladly and I will go again next week with my coupon for free soda!

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From Grainy to Artsy

I’m sure you noticed that the picture in the last post was grainy. That’s because it was taken with the camera on my phone. It’s the only camera I have right now. My real camera is on its way to be fixed. No, I didn’t locate a fabulous camera repairman, but I did find out that the camera’s manufacturer offers repair services. Even better, the problem may be the result of a faulty sensor, in which case the manufacturer will fix it for free and pay for postage both ways. Wouldn’t that be wonderful?

In the meantime, I do the best that I can with the camera phone. Sometimes it even takes some interesting photos. I think this one looks almost artsy.

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The Broken Light–what does it say about life?

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Nothing but the Best

“Nothing but the best for Bonnie” is the punchline of a running joke Faithful Reader and I have about the house. It refers to something we were told by our realtor when we bought the house. Tom, one of the former owners, claimed to have spent a great deal of money on a new well pump because his wife, Bonnie, always insisted on the best. This claim gives us such a laugh because it is so obviously refuted by every old, broken light fixture, and every cheap, worn floor covering, not to mention the nonmatching collection of kitchen appliances that range in age from the antique to the merely vintage.

There is a lot of work to be done to bring this house up to our standards. Sometimes the task before us threatens to overwhelm me. “Nothing but the best for Bonnie” is the joke that keeps me from despair. It helps me realize, when I look at the horrible light fixtures in the master bathroom, that though they may not be the best, they sure are funny.

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It’s hard to believe these egg-shaped globes were ever in vogue!

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Letting Go

Know then thyself, presume not God to scan,
The proper study of mankind is Man.
–from “Essay on Man” by Alexander Pope

Those immortal words, some of the only words I remember from my many English literature classes, came to me as I was writing a diatribe against the Vatican and Catholic dogma. I had had a splendid time venting and coming up with such phrases as “Stick that in your Pope pipe and smoke it!” But when I got deep into the matter, trying to understand God and to explain Him/Her/It to others, I was forced to admit that such a task was well beyond me. Not that I think Il Papa qualified either. He has undoubtedly spent much more time thinking about God than I have, but there is a barrier between us and Understanding that no amount of study or contemplation can pierce.

So be it. I know my limitations. Suffice it to say that I disagree strongly with the Vatican on a great many subjects, including the right-to-die debate as pertains to people in persistent vegetative states. I can’t speak to God’s intentions, I can only look at the human side of the issue, and that is that someone in a persistent vegetative state, though alive, does not really have a life. When there is no hope of recovery and the person would die without constant medical intervention, only unhappiness can come from prolonging that sad semblance of life. Just let them go.

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Brain Drain

Pregnancy is draining my brain. I can’t think straight. My work is suffering. Even worse, I can barely read for my own enjoyment. Normally I’m a voracious reader, able to finish any book within a few days, but now I’m lucky if I can force myself to read a few pages per night. It’s pathetic.

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Honeymoon Revisited

I’ve had pamphlets from several of Montreal’s sights sitting around in the hopes that I would finally blog about our honeymoon. Now, as I’m struggling to get all boxes unpacked and all my junk organized, it’s time to finally get it done. I don’t remember the order of events but I do remember all the big sights. Here goes.

We spent our honeymoon night in Boston; we had a fabulous and very expensive buffet brunch there on Sunday before heading off to Canada. I had never been to Canada, but I had tried to get there several times before. I had planned to go for my 29th birthday, but that was just days after the 9/11 terrorist attacks, which put the kibbosh on that trip. Then there was the time at Niagara Falls when I was within spitting distance of the Canadian shore but didn’t have my passport handy.

They say that three times is the charm, but I didn’t quite believe we’d make it to Montreal. I thought the car would break down or some other thing would keep us from going, and as a matter of fact, we came very close to having a car accident. While en route, a minivan on the other side of the highway lost control and started rolling over across the median. If it hadn’t lost so much speed once it hit the grass, it would have hit us. I can still visualize it flipping over and over and over again. It was a terrifying scene and it seemed at the time that it did not bode well for our trip.

We made it to Montreal without further incident, however, and what’s more we had a good time, even though our stay was brief. We visited the Basilique Notre-Dame de Montréal, whose interior may well be the most beautiful I have ever seen in a church.

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They were tuning the pipe organ while we were there. Oddly, the same thing happened years ago during our visit to Westminster Abbey in London, and I can only assume it is God’s way of punishing me for something, perhaps for not going to church except as a tourist.

We also went to the Biodôme (not to be confused with the Biosphère) and Le Parc olympique de Montréal. At the Biodome, I most enjoyed watching the lynx. They are very cool cats. At the Parc Olympique, we took the funicular (awesome word!) to the observation tower.  According to the literature, “Par temps clair, on peut admirer le paysage jusqu’à 80 kilomètres à la ronde.” Pardon my French, but that means something like, “On clear days, you can see up to 50 miles all around.” It was not the clearest day, but it was an autumn day, and anywhere there was a bunch of trees there was a blast of color.

At the Insectarium de Montréal, they offered to let us hold a spider (we declined). The nearby Jardin Botanique de Montréal was my favorite part of the trip. There we saw the call of nature in action—a fox doing his business on the plants. Hey, he was just your local animal doing his best to keep the garden green. We had tea and some sort of Asian sesame pastry at the Chinese Garden, a place for which I wish I had some pictures. Perhaps Faithful Reader has some on his camera.

Last but not least, we took a walk along the Old Port. Here is the Tour de l’horloge (Clock Tower).

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You can see gulls in the picture. Some of them were playing with what looked like little red rubber balls but which were actually cherries. Once we realized how much they liked the fruit, we amused ourselves for a while by picking cherries and tossing them to the birds.

And here, a pretty last picture to leave you with, a demonstration of how colorful was the fall foliage around the time of our wedding.

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Seeing Is Believing

Here is the proof that I went out to the deck the other day.

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But you can also take it as my personal statement on life.

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Our New Car

I told you about the death of my old car, but not about the adoption of the new one. Here it is, our beautiful new car.

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It’s a lovely metallic-blue Maxima with all the goodies inside–heated leather seats, heated steering wheel, dual climate control, moon roof, etc.. It is a used car, a fact which I find myself pointing out to everyone because of the Maxima’s exorbitant sticker price, but it feels like a new car to me.

We got a great deal on it. I can’t say we weren’t naughty, though. For less than what the insurance company gave us, we could have gotten a Civic similar to our old one. That would have been an incredible deal, don’t you think? But we wanted something bigger and nicer, so we spent a little extra.

Sure, it costs more to insure and to fill up at the pump, but while I’m driving on very cold days it keeps my butt toasty warm, and that’s all that matters.

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Dreamers of Dreams

While sorting through the things in one of our many moving boxes, I found a photocopy of a poem. I made the copy because a couple of the lines from this poem were used in Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory and I wanted to read the original verse. Here for your enjoyment is the best part of it.

From “Ode” by Arthur O’Shaughnessy–

We are the music-makers
And we are the dreamers of dreams,
Wandering by lone sea-breakers,
And sitting by desolate streams;–
World-losers and world-forsakers,
On whom the pale moon gleams:
Yet we are the movers and shakers
Of the world for ever, it seems.

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Bigger Belly

My belly grew last night while I was sleeping. Really. Some mornings when I wake up my belly is noticeably bigger than it was the night before. It’s not just my imagination. It’s pregnancy, and it’s weird!

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